Showing posts with label The Porcupine Dilemma. Show all posts
Showing posts with label The Porcupine Dilemma. Show all posts

Thursday, February 23, 2012

The Porcupine Dilemma

The porcupine dilemma made famous by German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer is a beautiful metaphor for how we choose to go through the world and relate to others, in a quest to master the intricate balance of protective self-containment and the vulnerability necessary for the warmth of true intimacy.  Elizabeth Gilbert discussed the principle.  I can totally relate!